Late last November, during the week I was invited to Malaysia to provide training in Counseling With NLP. Is a joy for me because it has become the ambassador who took part it the nation's workers. Training worked very satisfactorily, all participants are enthusiastic and give testimonials that very touching.
One of the most exciting from that experience was on the sidelines of my training can be stopped at the Genting Highlands, a place famous for its casinonya. Why I can stop-over, because the training location is also located in Genting View, very close to the location of Genting Highland. I am finally able to enter the casino ... wow!
This is the first day of my life went into a casino, a place that contains the people who like to gamble. For me this is an amazing experience, because I was raised in a devout religious environment. Kauman I was born in Yogyakarta, where the Muhammadiyah organization was born. So gambling is far from my life, even a small bet just never, because it is so strong it is emphasized since small.
Quite often I see films that show in casino gambling activities, ranging from west of the James Bond film, until the film titled God of Gambler mandarin. But only this time really can see how the casino's name. I was lucky today to get into two casino locations, in Genting Highland Malaysia. I satisfy myself the situation there, this article is a description of what I experienced.
Genting Highland region apparently different from what I originally imagined, it turns out this region as the peak, but with the 'urban' is far more neat and clean. I stayed at the hotel Genting View, namely the hospitality area, located under the Genting Highland. From here we can see the top of Genting Highland, with a clear, especially at night sights and extraordinary lights, so called Hotel Genting View. From the hotel approximately 10 minutes away where there Gohtong Jaya namely Genting Skyway Cable Railway (Cable Car), or cable car as it was in the park Mini Indonesia.
From 'Train Stesen Cables', we rise to the top of Genting Highland, use the cable car with a ticket for RM 10 for the round trip. Is the longest cable car in Asia, its length 3.38 km. What an extraordinary thing, depending on the height and moving at speeds high enough, so very long distances it's just taken 20 minutes. Travel to the summit through the lush tropical rain once, with an altitude of 1800 meters above sea level. Each cable car contained seating berpunggungan (such as a car guard), each side can be occupied by three adults. So three people will look towards the front, while three other people will look back.
The three of us went, me and two women's assistant trainer (Carmen and Linda), one of them was a bit afraid to ride the cable. But curiosity had apparently exceeded his fear. So he ventured, even if requested entertained along the road. In order to focus not see the frightening sight for him, he asked me to tell you this and that. Besedia helped distract me by telling me about the law of attraction, because I know it could help shift the focus. I then realized that I also bring my digital camera, in which still photos and video stored on the kids and my wife. So I took a digital camera as a diversion by telling about my family. And really like Anthony Robbins says "Change your focus, you change your reality." Every time Linda's focus on this digital camera, he looked calm and relaxed. Every time his eyes glanced at the scenery below, right hand holding the bars look more closely.
As already discussed in another article, "The map is not the territory, and We respond to our map, not our territory." Maps (mental) we are not realities outside world, and we respond to our own mental map, rather than responding directly to the outside world. Well, here Linda felt scared because his mind already formed a folder on a daunting journey. So because of the brief provides a frightening picture, then he became afraid to (respond to map). So one becomes afraid not because the immediate reaction on the territory (the external world), but on their own internal world.
So that one can eliminate the fear of a situation, then the best thing that can be done is by changing how he represents the situation in his mind (change map). But changing the map requires a little process, one way by editing submodality him about the situation. If not familiar with the term submodality and techniques change, please read the article on "editing submodality" to make it more clear.
You also can create or install an anchor resourceful on the subject before he went wading things that may cause fear. So when he was scared, soon in the edit submodalitynya, and on the trigger as soon thereafter anchornya. For more details about the anchor, please read the article on anchor in the portal.
Well, because I have not had time to install anything to her anchor, and no time to edit submodality it, then I use the easiest way. It is relatively quick way to eliminate fear, ie change its focus to look at different things and attract attention. Once he diverted his attention, aka switched his focus, he will immediately create a new folder on other things.
Once his mind focus on the pictures on a digital camera, so he formed a new folder. The new folder in the form of representation of my family photographs. Now, because humans respond in the folder, then Linda is now responding to the new folder, ie his mind about the photo, and his response was that he became cheerful and curious. Well you know, but we also know, the reality outside the three of us are still hanging in space depends .... Here, the name NLP for daily life, so down to earth and easy to do. NLP should be easier and easier, taught the easy way, made easy ...
Travel on this train are also taught other things on me. That we should focus forward, not backward. I mean, if we sat in the rear-facing, generally we would be dizzy and very uncomfortable looking down we leave behind. I heard that even some straight people who feel sick when sitting facing backwards, though cuman in car / bus. Well, interestingly at the time we drove home that night, Linda and then sit facing forward, he looked so lueeeega time to look forward and firing end is visible in front of his eyes. Once again proved, that the focus of the future will be more promising. This lesson also reminds me that in judging others or yourself, then good "do not focus on what background a person, focus to the foreground." Background makes pessimistic, foreground gives hope. We can change destiny by changing the way we see the future and mensikapinya.
Again, I want to tell you about Cable Railway, one of the passengers who ride with my native Malaysian I say "hanging Train is one of the oldest in the world since 1974, but even so the train was safe once kok". This opinion certainly got my attention, and I ask questions to the science of meta-model klarifikatif dong .... After I praised his knowledge about it (I do pacing), so I asked, "How do you get knowledge of it, what makes you believe the trains are safe? With pleasure he replied "My profession tourist guide, several times I was invited to see for myself when the train is being inspected / diservice each month this service will be off 3 days. I've also seen when the rope was replaced iron, replaced once a year. " Done clarify the metamodel, we mendaatkan a better picture of this cable carriage. A better picture is also increasingly calm the passengers on the train this kebel. Indeed, the tool meta-model has a variety of benefits, including in the information gathering of this kind.
From the story as well, I then found and noticed that this kind of cable car turns out that moving the cord, rather than using a sliding carriage wheels hung like a shadow of my previous. The train is to be able to move forward and must follow the movements of rotation that has been created by the cable with a certain mechanical system. This train will be clamped in a certain way (such as alligator claw). Capitannya will hold the wires tightly so he could go to proceed and take advantage of the turning movement of the cable. Uffff, if the train failed to clamp and fails depending on the rotation of the cable, it will .... (I do not want to give a traumatic khaaan).
Suddenly I was stunned, we often forget that just as the cable that runs and turns continue, then even this life, too. Regardless we agree or not, the earth / world will continue spinning and moving with the system that has been created. Various system created by humans are called by various designations are generally referred to by the various "Law of ....". For example the Law of Gravity, or anything else anymore nge-trend now Law Of Attraction (law of attraction). If we want to take lives and fortunes of the various Law that, so let's follow the rules, let's follow the way of harmonizing (pacing / alignment) on how this system works ... Please read the article about the law of attraction and how to align themselves to that law.
Well, we finally reached the top of Genting Highland, and I found that this region was immense Genting, actually it's more of an amusement park, not just casino as I imagine it had been, they called it a "Genting, the city of entertainment". Amazingly, this area was owned by one person yangkonon is the third richest in Malaysia named Tan Sri Lim Goh Tong. According to Forbes magazine, in an article in 2007 World's Billionaires he ranks the world's 204 richest people list with a net worth RM14.28 billion (U.S. $ 4.2 milliard). Ohya, he had just died a few months ago. God knows how much money he collected from the entertainment business have land like this ...
Genting is seen as a mall and a hotel that is integrated with various types of entertainment, games, restaurants, shops and casino. Some games are outside space such as a swimming pool and waterboom, canoe paddles, and other similar Dufan. While others in the room, like a merry-go-round and so forth. Somewhat hard to describe because it is very large and complete. If you ever get into the game to Karawaci Mall, there is much lebiiiih buesar.
Here too there is a kind of entertainment places haunted house contains Franskerstein, Dracula and all the basic. Hihihihi I recall as a child in Yogyakarta first, every year there Sekaten event (for one month before the celebration of Mawlid Nabi) in the North Square of no 'entertainment' (?) Haunted house like this but more modest, usually called the Palace of Ghosts, Ghost Cave , Lorong Ghost, and so forth. Visitors will be asked to enter into an alley, previously had to pay a ticket is expensive enough just to be frightened ... .. Incredibly, if people want a creative and trying, then anything can indeed be used as a source of money .... Finding money in a way to scare ..., if we use the twisted logic is another form of legal thuggery (hehehehe). So remember the movie's success or Sister Jailangkung NGESOT, selling a fear of the audience.
Ohya, in addition to this haunted house there is the Museum Guinness Record Of The World, a kind of museum whose contents ie photographs and replicas of the wonders and the record is solved by humans around the world. One of the impressive was the person who is very high, more than two meters, and the person who is very fat, fattest in the world. YAG was selling my curiosity and wonder .... Weleh weleh welehhhh ... many ways to make money pal!
Casino
Well, this time we are talking about casino, where sometimes, money spinning very fast ... Others with the Ghost Cave and Museum Records, others also with the
Casino online. Casino business is to sell a dream (get rich quick), desire to be champion, lust experienced fortune (luck) and sell lust maruk (greedy) on human beings. I'm not nosy about it, that's human ... The creative selling and knowing human nature, would be good at making money from it. Ethical or not? Please judge for yourself, I just tell it.
Perhaps you are wondering, there are some casino in Genting Highland? I do not have time to count how many, but at least I see four. Interestingly, in front of the casino-casino's existing brochures warning, if no one reads "Gambling Should be an entertaining activity" or something like that. With images that are wrinkled like a middle merutuki defeat gambling. I am not so ngeh, is this an attempt by the government or the existence of such institutions of local NGOs who want to warn all visitors of the dangers of gambling. I do not know, I also do not have time to gauge whether this is effective or not? Or is it just sort of preconditions that must exist in front of a casino, as a prerequisite to write the words "Smoking is dangerous, and so on ... .." on cigarette packs. What is clear, when I took the brochure and read it there for about five minutes, none of others who are interested in taking this brochure.
After all efforts to provide flyers / brochures that can still be referred to as the provision of balanced information. At least been warned of the dangers of gambling. Even menghungi provided phone numbers for assistance if felt gambling had become a collecting activity (compulsive). So if you gamble, you risk sudahtahu ...
I observed, in front of the casino as well there is always a bank counter, amazing ... take some money in the bank if not forget to bring .... Take it with the bank, if it loses ... .. All is set up to ensure money was sucked not only visitors who are in the bag / wallet, but until the entire savings. This is where I studied how the human natural anchor to work ... If you do not bring money or run out of money or need the money, then our spontaneous reaction is to think "If I take the money again." In this position, we are torn aakan remember that we still have money in the bank! And gubrak, we immediately triggered his memory "LHA, in front of the casino khan no bank ...!", Gracious Allah!
Let us imagine a scenario, when someone happened to pass by the front casino, chances curiosity will make it then became a bit interested. But the attraction is usually immediately muted with a reason, "Wow, really interesting and all, but unfortunately I did not take a lot of money ....". Now when considering not take the money, this condition is usually triggered thoughts? Yes ...., Usually someone is triggered to think "If only bring money ...." Well at the time was thinking and imagining if there is money, there was madness in the existing bank, where he could take the money that he did not carry in their pockets. Well, that's automatically triggered mind that his name was an anchor, aka anchornya triggered. Surely all this is a scenario, not coincidentally, in front of the casino there is a bank. And demented, when someone lost in the casino, and feel the money started running low, he was back to feeling the need for more money. We think "If there is money ....", He once again will be stimulated to get out while taking the money in the bank.
Entrance to the casino in general through the guards and sturdy like at the airport checkpoint. I'm interested in how their eyes move, once trained in looking at prospective visitors. Ohya, I remember, all the guards would prohibit someone who is seen as religious Muslims, for example using a headscarf and so forth. This is mainly for people melayu ... Well, this one assistant trainer (Carmen), hooded, so it can not enter. Carmen is an albino, but had converted to Islam and home to about 10 annually in Malaysia. So finally I just go alone with Linda chinesse ethnicity.
As we entered the casino, mainly seen visitors from chinesse race, somehow? That day I did not see people of Indian descent in the casino, maybe they are tired because all day protesting against the eviction houses of worship, or did they not been to the casino (forbidden religion). The days when it was a tough day for Hindus in Malaysia, because it was dealing with the interests of the government which evicted the houses of worship erected on state land.
Inside the casino gambling game looks different. Seems the most crowded game roulette, probably because most fishing adrenalin. While the jackpot game seemed deserted, probably because of the possibility of a small win. I see some women who seem to be alone to sit in a chair waiting for something like a jackpot. I do not have time to find out what they actually do. Are they visitors and players gambling, or they peddle something else ..
Calibration
In general, gambling game betting is done by putting into a particular symbol, either a number, hurup or color. Then do an activity, whether the distribution of cards, playing the roulette wheel or other activities. The end result will be seen who will win or lose.
On the table is not visible in the form of money of any currency, as they exchange their money with a chip. Everyone will get a chip with different colors, so it can be distinguished from each other. Use of this chip is definitely a technique of 'psychological' extraordinary, because people do not seem to "see" the money at stake, he only "saw" himself risked a plastic chip for carom seeds. Well, again let us associate with "The map is not territory, and We respond to a folder, not territory." If we bet money, then it was risking a fortune, and his brief would be different if the risk of plastic chips. We've been raised in years are trained from childhood in a way that money is property, and so on. While not all of us will immediately form a plastic folder that the chip is also the representation property. Chips represent a more plastic toys, jadimap we see chips as toys. And remember, people always respond to the brief, not realitynya. Uphhhhh, humans respond to represetasinya about plastic chip-like toy, and called her MAIN kegiatannyapun gambling, reinforced with Genting positioning as an entertainment activity. Completely already! And, voila ...! What is our response to the word game? Surely the response ... lightly-lightly
In addition, the bet with the chip system would force players to risk large amounts of money that is worth the value of direct chip itself. Different if the bet with the money directly, then the player can bet in a small fraction or even of RM Mon Sure, the game roullete, I see the players put the chip on the crossing of four betting box, meaning that he bet worth one quarter of the value of its chip. But still he had to put a chip, not a fractional quarter of RM or Mon ....
The interesting thing, every time my friend approached me with a gaming table to observe how it works, some visible eye glanced sharply without hesitate to us. I think they like the question "Want to see what Lu-see?". Bandar was also seen blatant attention toward us, but they did not say anything.
Finally I am interested in a card game, where people are given a card, then complained that the card has a fortune of this. Here I wanted to show my friend was about NLP-style calibration. We watched the faces and the physiology of these gamblers, to see if they can be a good card or bored, whether they will win or lose. Incredibly, NLP gives us the stock to "read" people like reading an open book ...
Hhhhm, obviously, if calculated in percentage was almost the majority there do not seem eager, decrepit. Each time round will begin, it seems there is a glimmer of an instant face full of hope appeared on their faces. Then, as already got the card, some advances have started to appear dim. When the game ends, it is clear that seem more depressing than it seems happy. Some faces seem so easy in the calibration, a change from happy to neutral faces and then become upset very easily done here. Well, so have an idea, what if during the calibration exercise in training, we just take people to the gaming table, hehehe itung-itung menlatih our sensory acuity. Btw, I also wonder ..., air can be heard a lot of grim-faced people ... why are there who like to gamble yes ....?
My friend had to whisper when asked about how we use hypnosis when playing card games? I replied, "Ssssst, please do not talk about that, it is the most dangerous topic here!", Hehehehe. Using hypnosis for gambling? Interesting is also possible for discussion, at least when playing gambling without the airport may be yes ... Because of the airport looks very well trained and appear to have no expression.
The situation may be like this, when someone is playing card games like go to the restroom, well there he will be approached and experienced instant induction using a pattern interrupt. Now when players are in hypnosis, he was given the suggestion "Whatever you see is a card that will be seen as a bad card, and all the cards I have will be seen as a good card." Gubrak!
Hahaha, it's probably going khan? Emang gambling always close to another crime ... Ohya, I also have heard the rumors, celebrity magicians card and hypnotic in the United States reportedly banned from the casino-casino in Las Vegas. The owners of casinos and the airport seems to be afraid. Maybe ....
Okay, I hope the above story illustrates quite Genting Highland region, as well as day trips to learn NLP in the streets. Fun, easy, simple, useful, and so on. Hmmm, the story above, I also hope to make people lose interest in gambling, because obviously more defeat than victory. Not to mention the religious side .... yes khan?
